The Importance of a Mother

Mother & child… :)

One of the most important people in everyone’s life is our mother. Before birth, their body was in pain to carry us in their wombs for about nine months. They vomited their food, they suffered from headaches, and felt the weakness of their body every morning. But because they are mothers, they never complain. They make all these sacrifices wholeheartedly without anything in return.
Being a mom is not a job. For me, it is the most wonderful part of being a woman. It is something you learn as you go and constantly striving to be a better person for your child. Our children are our future so we have to do our best at raising them to be the best people they can be.
It has the challenges especially in these difficult economic times. It’s hard to maintain the happy and secure home their children are used too. It’s hard to keep them out of all the stress of difficult financial situation without making them insecure or worried.
Our mother is the one who changed our diapers, stayed up late for us and sacrificed everything she had just for us. She often takes the fallout for the toddler tantrums and the teenage angst. Despite that, she generally loves her children no matter what they do.
We sometimes extol our mother’s sacrifices from when we were infants, yet, we cannot describe her “real” sacrifices and hardships unless we experience them.
They care for us as if we are golden treasures that they are eager to protect us from harmful humans and incidents. In the middle of the night, when everyone else is asleep, she remains awake to check our needs when we are sick. And even if she feels weak, she still manages to gather all her strength and does a lot of work for her children.
Our mother is a nurse, a doctor, a counselor, a maid, a chef, a teacher, a driver, an accountant, and sometimes a maintenance worker all rolled into one. We cannot count every deed our mothers have done to let us live better.
Yes, motherhood can be challenging. As your child grows, you grow. You mature into a woman you may never thought be possible.
When you are grown-up and face some problems, you will imagine what your mother would do. In the most complicated situation, you can ask for advice from your mother and she will be more than happy to answer and help you. She is your most sincere and true friend.
Being a mother is hard but it’s amazing, deep, profound, mysterious, emotionally stretching, and a journey never known until crossed. It is always rewarding and a simple smile, hug and kiss from their children is enough to take away their tiredness.
This coming mother’s day, if you can’t say verbally, just send them a letter. A simple “thank you” and “I love you” can make them feel special and important.
About these ads